Can You Teach Empathy? Why Soft Skills Are the Future of Salesforce Consulting

In the Salesforce world, we’ve long been laser-focused on technical prowess. Certifications, cloud specialisations, industry verticals — these have been the badges of honour for Salesforce consultants for years. But there’s a new, quieter revolution happening in the ecosystem: the soft skills revolution.
And leading the charge? Empathy.
The Evolution of the Salesforce Consultant
As the platform matures, so do the expectations of clients. Once, a consultant’s value was measured by how many objects they could customise, or how fluently they could write Apex. Now, it’s also about how effectively they can navigate the people behind the business problem.
Clients today are looking for more than just implementers. They want partners. Advisors. Translators who can bridge the gap between business vision and technical solution.
And that calls for a new skill set:
- Active listening
- Clear, confident communication
- Emotional intelligence
- Conflict resolution
- Stakeholder engagement
- Change management
These “soft” skills are quickly becoming core.
So… Can You Teach Empathy?
Let’s address the big question: is empathy something you can teach?
The short answer is: yes, with the right mindset.
While some people are naturally more attuned to others’ feelings, empathy can absolutely be developed — especially in a professional context. In fact, consultants who’ve been in high-stakes project environments often learn it the hard way.
Developing empathy in Salesforce consulting looks like:
- Asking questions before offering solutions
- Understanding the emotional and business context behind requirements
- Recognising the stress and uncertainty that change can bring
- Adapting your communication style depending on who you’re speaking to
Empathy is a skill that improves over time — but only if it’s valued, nurtured, and prioritised in hiring and development processes.
Why Soft Skills Are Business-Critical
Salesforce projects aren’t just technical implementations — they’re often full-scale organisational transformations. And transformation brings tension.
Users resist change. Leaders feel pressure. Teams are stretched.
The most successful consultants aren’t just great builders — they’re great at managing emotions, expectations, and outcomes.
Think about it: a consultant who can explain technical trade-offs in plain language, build trust with stakeholders, and steer the project around interpersonal roadblocks? That’s the consultant your client wants on every engagement.
Empathy = Better Delivery
Empathy doesn’t just make you a nicer consultant — it makes you a better one.
It helps you:
- Translate real needs into smart solutions
- Create buy-in from users
- Avoid miscommunications that lead to rework
- Foster long-term client relationships
In short, empathy leads to projects that work — not just technically, but for the humans involved.
What This Means for Hiring
If you’re building a Salesforce team, it’s time to stop treating soft skills as a bonus. They’re a strategic advantage.
You need consultants who understand the platform — but also the people who use it. Who can sit in front of a boardroom full of stakeholders and read the room as easily as they read a user story.
When you find a consultant who’s both technically strong and emotionally intelligent, hold on to them. They’re gold dust.
The Takeaway
Yes, you can teach empathy.
Yes, you should hire for it.
And yes, it might just be the most valuable skill your next Salesforce consultant brings to the table.
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